Saturday, March 28, 2009

our beginning 1 year ago


March 26th, 2008 our "first date"


March 27th, 2009 Married

So even though Ev and I are married, I just wanted to note today as a significant day in our lives. Today, March 27th 2009, marks 1 year of being together. 9 months of that dating and 3 months being married and still dating =) The past year has been amazing. I truly found my best friend. Of all the people I could be led to in the world I am so thankful that I finally found Ev. He is the best person I could ever imagine myself with. I love how the past year we have learned so much about each other and continue to learn things of course =) I am so thankful for Evan and his kind heart, his chinese eyes and his sense of humor. I love that we can laugh and talk and laugh and play. I love that he always makes me feel beautiful and special. I love that he loves to just snuggle with me (especially if he wants to play football on the wii, thats how he convinces me he can play, that I can snuggle with him =P) He speaks to me with such kindness and his kind tone always make me feel so happy and loved. I love that he has no problem doing the dishes and that he always wants to do everything together (laundry, dishes, cleaning).These qualities are just a few of his qualities that I love so much.We arent perfect, but we are perfect for each other. I love my husband and I will always be grateful for March 27th when we began our beginning 1 year ago.

Sunday, March 22, 2009

JTAYCL

I remember being on my mission and not only teaching the gospel to those that did not know about the truth, but also sharing with members the importance of opening their mouths and sharing the Gospel with their family and friends. There was this program in my mission for members that we called "JTAYCL" this means JUST TALK ABOUT YOUR CHURCH LIFE. Today in Gospel Doctrine, Evan and I are teaching lesson 11 "The Field is White Already to Harvest". As I was reading the purpose of this lesson and what we are to encourage the members to do I was brought back to my mission and the program JTAYCL. Finding every opportunity to talk about your church life. For example, If you were in a grocery store buying a ton of supplies for a ward activity or for mutual and the cashier makes a comment, "oh are you having a party?" instead of just saying yes, you can say," I am actually buying these treats for a church activity we are having on Saturday or we have a group for the young people in our church and its called mutual, its a time for the youth to get together and do activities." They may ask what church you go to or they may not but they may just be left thinking about what church you go to and the light in your eyes. Missionary work is so important! Often it is hard to open our mouths for fear of rejection or overbearance or any reason we can find to excuse ourselves. As I was reading the Lesson President Eyring told a story about how he worked with this very nice man who was not a member. President Eyring said," I might have been the only member that this man knew and after I had learned later that he and his wife had been killed in a late night drive, I felt sorrow for not sharing the gospel. He loved his family and would have wanted the chance to be with them forever." President Eyring goes on to say," I suppose that in the world to come I will meet him, that he will look into my eyes, and that I will see them in question, 'Hal, you knew. Why didnt you tell me?" What a profound question for each of us to ponder. We may be asked this question someday, but we dont have to be asked it, live the gospel and let your light shine. Share the gospel daily. It never has to be anything huge, but the simple testimony of a small principle of prayer, family, or Jesus Christ. Anyhoo...thats our excitement for today. Its going to be great to invite others to share the gospel and help them feel the joy of service. REMEMBER: "“Satan trembles, when he sees the weakest Saint upon his knees.”A man never stands taller than when he is upon his knees.Pray for opportunities to come and they will, but be ready for the opportunity!
oh and Happy Birthday MOM!! Love you!

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Happy Wednesday!!

Its been a good week here in the islands, but we have gotten an awful lot of rain lately, no wonder its so green here, but not much sun and I know I know when I say its cold here, no one is going to believe me, but it gets chilly, I swear. But I love it, no complaining here =) BYU Hawaii's Mens bball team made it to the Sweet 16 of the NCAA II division. They were ranked 3rd in the nation, but after a sad loss tonite 59-58 to Cal Poly Pomona, they no longer stand in that ranking nor do they get to move on to the top 8. Sad Day. They were playing good they were always up and at one point had a 15 point lead. They just werent rebounding and their free -throws were off. Everyone was sorely disappointed watching another team cut the nets off in our own gym...but you win some you lose some I guess, they had it in their pocket and then just let it go. There was about 4200 fans cheering them on, the CAC was packed and the UNITY was powerful. Its so neat to be at an LDS university. Not only for the simple fact that most are members, but because of the support that we as a church family give to one another. Onto something else, its too sad to talk about that sad loss..ok so I wanted to see this movie called ,"Boy in the Striped Pajamas" its not an award winning film and wasnt in the movie theatre, but it was in one of the movie kiosk on campus so Evan rented it for me. The movie is based upon the book. It about the Holocaust and WWII. I know this is going to sound weird, really weird, but the Holocaust is my favorite part in history to learn about. Is that weird? I mean I know that the Jews were tortured and the Germans frankly didnt give a fly about them..you know the story I wont get into too much detail, but this movie was about a boy whos dad was a General during WWII. He facilitated and "was trying to make the world more peaceful" the family moved close to where a concentration camp was and the little 9 yr old boy, Bruno, in the film is an explorer. He only has a sister so he got bored often, but he noticed "the people with pajamas" and was under the impression that the camp he could see through his window was a farm and that the people on it were strange because they worked in their pajamas. Anyways long story short, this little boy goes behind his house and discovers how to get to the fences of the camp. He finds a little boy name Schlomo sitting at the fence taking a break from the labor at the camp. So everyday he brings the little boy food and they become from as they play across the fence. This boy had no clue what the camp was and didnt understand what was going on. He didnt care that the little boy was a Jew, he was happy to have a friend. I learned how much unconditional love that children have and what an example they are to us. No wonder why the Savior urges us to become like little children...So the movie ends with Bruno, bringing a shovel to dig a hole under the fence to help Schlomo find his dad. Schlomo snuck an extra pair of "pajamas"AKA clothes with the id number for Bruno and they went on their way looking for Schlomo's dad in all the bunkers everywhere. Brunos eyes were opened. He saw all these people starved and dying..he proceeds to ask, "can we go to the cafe, im hungry"....Schlomo and Bruno go in one of the bunkers and the soldiers come in and force everyone out, they take them to the gas chambers, Bruno just thought they were taking a shower. In the end Bruno dies holding Schlomos hand inside the gas chamber. He had no idea what was happening. They were both so scared. But that was the end. It was a very tender movie and really taught me the power of love and the need for peace in the world, to love is better than to hate, no matter who it may be.
Ok so this post is so long...but one last thing I wanted to say was I cooked my first Roast! Yes I did =) It turned out so good! Tender meat that just ripped on its own=) I was proud of myself. Thanks mom for some guidance! Well everyone thats it for now...until I think of something else to write about...peace out cuzzzzzzzzzz.

Before After

Friday, March 6, 2009

Happy Friday! Lifes Simple Pleasures...

I just am so excited today! You should know that Hawaii officially has a TARGET! Can you believe it??!?! I know right..how could I have lived so long without one, well..sometimes you just gotta sacrifice =) So there are two here on the island. No where else on any other island are there Targets..its just awesome..ok so the simple things in life really just make me so happy.. Im so easy to keep happy =) My mom sent me a cheese slicer this week. Now I know when I tell people they are like" OHH a ...cheese slicer...wow what a..cool thing.." Honestly is is the best thing since sliced bread and Targets in Hawaii. There is nothing better than having thin sliced cheese because when you are trying to make a grilled cheese tuna melt and really the bread is cooking faster than the cheese is melting, that where we run into a problem...I know turning the stove down could be a possibility, but heck when I want a tuna melt I just want the cheese to MELT>> ok so on top of my other job, I take care of a little girl. I took care of her for my whole last year of college. Her name is Naomi and well she is darling! She is so stinkin smart. Her parents are guinesses and teach her very well. I mean what almost two year old can tell you where there right ear is?? Thats amazing to me. Its fun to have her around, its not even a job to me, its my playtime, time to be amazed, time to just watch her grow and to teach her things.
Everyone meet Naomi or as she calls herself "OMI" the image you see is she has an old cell phone that has no battery on the back and she has my car keys. what happened was picked up her phone got my keys and said" bye, Im leaving, I going bye bye, see ya later." It is so funny how little kids pick up on those things. That is usually what Evan does when he is leaving for work he has his cell phone is one hand and the keys in the other..I think she is adorable and makes me happy.
My sister Jenny doesnt have a facebook. SO the next picture I am posting is for her. I cut 9 inches off of my hair in January and she just found out today. Where in the world does she hide? I mean 9 inches that was a momentous event in my life. I have always had long hair...and I decided well I am tired of vacuuming up such long hair, so if I am going to shed so much it might as well be shorter hairs =) jk... well wish me luck at target tomorrow..hopefully its not too crazy like they say it is...life is good. I am grateful for the simple and small things that make each day special. Theres nothing better than doing good for others and seeing them smile because you make them happy. Like Naomi, "small orange paweese?" I said, " of course.." Naomi says," OH THANK YOU..as she laughs because the orange is so small =)